Thomas Holland Haefner, Jr., 75, of Philadelphia, passed away January 30, 2024 surrounded by his loved ones. Thom was survived by his loving wife Denise Lowe Haefner and Yvette Rapone Haefner, the mother of his children Ryan Victor Haefner (Tara), Stefanie Haefner Smith (Ryan Smith) and Thomas Holland Haefner III. He is also survived by his sister Kathryn (Jerry Dutkiewicz). He was the grandfather of 7 - Samantha, Austin, Damien, Jilian, Sophia, Matthew and Sean. Thom was a highly decorated Army veteran who proudly served armed and special forces in Vietnam from the years 1968 to 1971. After working for the city of Philadelphia for 28 years, Thom retired in 2014 to Honeybrook, PA where he found his love for chickens and his rescue dog Jazzy. Services and interment are private. Condolences may be shared at www.kollerfuneralhome.com